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Many people consider success to equal to money. The rich are truly abundant of physical conditions, but I don't think this means they are successful. I think one man's success is based on his relationship between people, his family, and self-esteem.
A person's relationship between him and others explains how successful he controls his emotion and has good manners. I want to take an employer of my friend's for example. His employer is extremely rich, but stingy and mean. Most of his employees don't like him. Such a person is successful in business, but nobody likes him. I have a friend who might not have much money, but is always sincere to his friends. Years later, when he needs help, I believe a lot of people will passionately give him a hand. I believe this is success.
The next important factor is the harmony of the family. If the father knows nothing but make money, ignoring the existence of the families, his families will just become farther and farther. The father maybe supports his family, but he won't gain the respect from his children. For the children, their father is more like an ATM. That's not success.
Last but not the least, the fulfillment of one man's self-esteem is also a paramount essence. If one is unable to be confident of himself, he won't be able to achieve anything. If a man stops his steps merely because of his fear to make mistakes or do wrong things, he is just be a common person. Being a successful man is just an unpractical dream.
Of course the mentioned factors mentioned above are not the only definitions of success, but they are definitely the basics of success. The three paramount factors cannot be bought by money, no matter how rich a person is.
A person's relationship between him and others explains how successful he controls his emotion and has good manners. I want to take an employer of my friend's for example. His employer is extremely rich, but stingy and mean. Most of his employees don't like him. Such a person is successful in business, but nobody likes him. I have a friend who might not have much money, but is always sincere to his friends. Years later, when he needs help, I believe a lot of people will passionately give him a hand. I believe this is success.
The next important factor is the harmony of the family. If the father knows nothing but make money, ignoring the existence of the families, his families will just become farther and farther. The father maybe supports his family, but he won't gain the respect from his children. For the children, their father is more like an ATM. That's not success.
Last but not the least, the fulfillment of one man's self-esteem is also a paramount essence. If one is unable to be confident of himself, he won't be able to achieve anything. If a man stops his steps merely because of his fear to make mistakes or do wrong things, he is just be a common person. Being a successful man is just an unpractical dream.
Of course the mentioned factors mentioned above are not the only definitions of success, but they are definitely the basics of success. The three paramount factors cannot be bought by money, no matter how rich a person is.
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